Boost Your Sex, Not Slut, Appeal

There have always been the usual, obvious methods for boosting sex appeal, such as wearing super-short skirts and low-cut tops, but what if you don't want to be so obvious? Maybe you're a shy girl who wants a less intimidating way of breaking out of your shell. Or perhaps you want to learn how to dress sexy without looking skanky. Thankfully, there are understated ways – some scientifically proven - to catch a guy's attention that may even be more effective than baring it all.

More chest, less breast is a good rule to follow. Although cleavage is always a magnet for guys' eyes, there's always the risk of showing too much and giving the wrong message ("I'm easy."). Besides, collarbones are the one feature that look good on women of most shapes and sizes. Show them off; it's sensual and subtle.

Use accessories to highlight your favourite physical assets. For instance, if you want to draw attention to your full bosom without resorting to a plunging neckline, the best way to go are long necklaces or pendants that end in a point. The necklace/pendant almost acts as an arrow, pointing the way to your breasts. This is a sexy subliminal message that would turn on the guy without him even knowing why.

High heels do wonders for a girl's figure, no matter what type of body she has. High heels tighten the calves and make your butt look firmer and more upright. The higher the heel the better, as long as you're comfortable enough to do a hot saunter in them.

Did you ever notice you get more attention in a strappy outfit? That isn't just because you're showing more skin – you're exposing your arm pit. Believe it or not, your arm pit is pretty damn sexy.

Why? The human body sends out chemical signals called pheromones that can help you be attractive to the opposite sex and your arm pit is the prime secretion area for them. Seventy-four percent of the people who tested a commercial pheromone called Athena experienced an increase in hugging, kissing and intimacy. You don't have to go through so much trouble though. Just wearing an armhole shirt would do the job.

Another good rule to follow: never show your assets all at once. If you want to flaunt your long legs, keep the breast and the stomach covered. If you want to show off your abs, don't bare too much leg or cleavage. You get the idea now?

In the end, it doesn't matter how many techniques you use, scientifically-based or not, if you have low self-esteem. You have to believe you're hot before anyone else can. Look at yourself in the mirror so you could figure out what you love about your body. Another trick to make you feel sexy: wear nice, lacy underwear. No one has to see it and it would be your naughty little secret. Just remember, nothing is sexier than confidence.