Copy Cat – Whether it is through jealousy or lack of her own identity, this friend refuses to let you do something without trying to copy you. I had one of these, if I said something and she realised that got a reaction or attention from our friends, then she loved it. If I did my hair in a certain style she did it that way as well. This may start out flattering but soon becomes draining and annoying.

Competitive friend – This friend won’t allow you to have a success in your life without trying to one-up you. She/he may not be fully supportive of your endeavours and it is best to keep your distance for she will lead you often times to doubt yourself. If you get a bicycle they got to run get a car because you must not have more shine than they do.

Self-absorbed friend – If your friend cannot stop thinking about him or herself even to offer you sincere advice, congratulate you or empathise with you then it may be time to let him or her go. They can’t stop talking about themselves or their lives and show no concern for you or anyone else for that matter. This friend will never help you grow nor be there for you in times of need therefore, it is best to distance yourself from him or her.

Fault-finder – Nothing you do is every good enough for this friend. He or she will find a fault with everything you do whether it is successful or not. This friend has the potential of damaging your self-esteem and self-worth. There is nothing worse than being around someone who kills your spirit and is constantly criticising you.

Honest friend – This is the friend who will always tell you the truth even when it hurts. She will not let you leave the house looking a hot mess. He or she is not hurtful or thoughtless just looking out for your best interest. If you are wrong they will let you know but the best part if you are right they will be just as forthcoming.

Optimistic friend – Someone to pick-up your spirits when you are down and to let you know everything will work out in your favour. They are not blind in their optimism but are able to give you balanced advice from a perspective that is always looking to get the best from every situation.

Comfort friend – You have known this friend your entire life. You can turn to him or her at any time and when you are sad there are no other arms to which you would turn. No one has to say anything for a great time to be had and if you have not seen each other for a long time with every reunion, it is as though you spoke yesterday.

Comic relief friend – This is the friend who will keep you rolling on the floor. He or she can see the lighter side of every situation and will keep the mood light and fun. Don’t sit next to him or her at a serious event if you want to pay attention but definitely keep company with this individual.