Seventeen, Lonely And Never Been Kissed

Dear Lisa Love,

I'm tired of hearing people complain about their lives. I would love to have their 'problems'. At least they have a life. I'm almost seventeen and I've never had a real boyfriend and I've never been kissed. My life is really boring and I don't have a lot of friends. I have a crush on a sexy guy at school and I was just wondering how I could break the ice without making a fool out of myself. He has a lot of friends. I don't know if he would wanna hang out with a loser like me but can you tell me what I should do?

- Depressed Loner

Dear Depressed Loner,

Get over it! If you don't feel good about yourself, no one is going to feel good about you. So the first thing you have to do is stop feeling sorry for yourself and then things will change. If you want a life you will have to start living. So go out and do things that make you happy, then that will shine through to others. If you are lonely and depressed that will also show. I'm sure that the guy will be happy to talk to you if you are a cheerful, confident person; guys are attracted to that, trust me!

- Lisa Love